*wiping cobwebs from my blog*




My my my... hasn’t time simply flown by.... I have been so busy with my baby boy and my new little girl... yes yes I have given birth and am now a proud mummy of 2 wonderful children... the prince and princess of my heart... I gave birth in September and now my princess is 1 month plus... the sleepless nights, colic cries are call coming back to me... I have yet to sleep 4 hours in a row... even as I am typing now, I can hear her grunting... hoping to complete this blog entry before she wakes up... hahahahaha... since April this year, I have been guiding non – stop till august... it was fun but major tiring.... I had guide friends have been accommodating and helped me a lot due to my big belly... some guests have been very nice and some also were quite shocked at me working with my huge belly...

Celebrated my little baby becoming a toddler at home... decided to throw a grand function when my second baby was born... time really flies when one has a baby... my little prince has went through so many changes and watching him go through such changes has been a delight.... I still remember he was a wee little thing when I brought him back... now he is a little angel who steals people’s hearts just by smiling... my heart just swells up when I think about all the changes and see his pictures... now I can’t wait for my princess to grow with similar memories....

Am still house hunting... We have found some apartments recently and with the market sizzling down... we might have our apartment pretty soon...

Will be celebrating my son’s first birthday and my daughter’s naming ceremony next month after Diwali... been busy with all the preparations plus Diwali is gonna be huge with 2 children... next year I would celebrating Diwali in my own house... hard to believe but true... I get excited whenever I think about it...

Ok ok me gotta go... before I forget I am going for the Night Safari Halloween dinner tomorrow with hubby and friends... am really looking forward to it...now I need to sort my son’s clothes... he has outgrown so many clothes so gonna arrange his cupboard...



Happy Halloween all....

Hello it’s been sometime since I have blogged....I’ve just been so busy and feeling sick... nausea has hit me pretty bad... it’s worse for my second pregnancy... plus I have started to do full time guiding... it gives me the exercise that I need but it can also be very taxing... especially my sentosa excursions... other than that I have no complains... am still looking for a place to stay... Tubby Hubby and I can’t agree on the same location... with the property prices sky rocketing, we are still thinking whether we should go private or not...


Anyhoo... I went to Mauritius last month and that was a fantastic place... the sun, the sea, the sand and the hotels... Mother, Tubby Hubby, Baby and I had a whale of a time... but we all came back tanned... the seafood was delicious... the people were beautiful... both inside and out... the greenery... OMFG!!!! Varieties of green were all around.... sugarcane plantations everywhere... we went up to a dormant volcano and when we looked down, I felt as thought I was looking at a scene of Jurassic Park... it was mind blowing.... the sea was so blue!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just like the Hindi movies...

Baby was a good boy too... he didn’t scream on the flights.... he was a darling.... everyone wanted to carry him... however he hates to wear hats, or anything that covers his head... don’t know where he gets his stubbornness and anger from... must be from the father’s side of the family... he loved swimming...

Anyhoo I have posted the pictures up Facebook... go and see my cheeky boy... hee hee hee...

Many people have asked me about my second pregnancy... many feel that I got pregnant too fast... I say I don’t share the same views.... I think that my second pregnancy has come at the right time... look at the bigger picture... when my kids grow older; their age difference would be a year... with the competitive education system in Singapore, I can manage my children’s studies more efficiently...

This Friday would be my scan date... I’m hoping for a girl with Tubby Hubby is hoping for a boy...we shall see...

Update on baby’s birthday: Amutha is helping me with the cake... still looking for photographer, DJ and am contemplating on whether I should have door gifts or not....

haiz... so many things to and so little time.... well I gotta go now... gonna have a shower.... wanna meet Tubby Hubby in central for a walk....

Toodles for now...

My my… hasn’t time just whizzed by… it’s been nearing 6 months since I last blogged… times have changed… I’ve given birth to a healthy bouncing baby boy in July… he’s been the centre of my world for the past few months… other than Tubby Hubby and my beloved first son ROMEO…
I have my little family and I love every minute of it…
Watching my little boy grow, watching his progress gives me great pleasure… it’s a huge lump in my throat that neva goes down… his gurgles and trying to sing along whenever me or TB are singing is just adorable…
He is my pride and joy and I strive to give him the best that I can… I feel complete as woman and as a person in whole… I would never change anything in my life…
There have been loads of ups and downs in my life and they have made me stronger… I grew from an immature brat to a responsible mother to my little baby… it’s a journey like no other… everything I read or heard is thrown out of the window as my baby defies all logic… come to think of it he’s like me… a fighter to the end…
I have started to appreciate my parents a lot more now… especially my mom… she has gone through so much with us… she’s the pillar of my strength… she’s been helping me out emotionally with all this over whelming baby knowledge…
On a another note, some people are low life scums… you know who you are… apparently the saying “live & let live” is lost on you… it saddens me when I learn that in this age and time you resort to underhand methods… you are a young & educated person and yet you choose the cowardly and underhand method to fight me… it’s not my fault if you fail to understand the concept of “love”…
As a woman, one should be compassionate & loving… there’s a reason why only women give birth and are called “Mother”… apparently all is lost on you…
No matter how much harm you may cause me and my family, I pray one day your eyes will be open and you can see the world clearly...
I believe there is a God… He is watching everyone & everything…
I will not succumb to whatever you have done and give up… My mama taught me better than that…
I will fight you and whatever you wanna say or do… my family ties are stronger than you think… we don't break down & crumble that easily…
I know you are reading a blog and are always on a look out for a defamatory note against you…
Well I am not gonna give you that satisfaction…
PHEW!!!!
Now that I have got that out of my system, I wanna wish everyone happy holidays!!!! The decorations down at Orchard Road looks great… can’t wait to bring my young one down…

TATA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear baby,
This is your mommy here. I have been meaning to write this letter for a long time but never got down to it. You were a shock when you came into my life… I thought I wanted to enjoy my new life… I was at a dilemma whether to keep you or not… I’m glad I did…

The first trimester was a killer… our doctor was horrible and we were confused of what to do… we finally found a gem of a doctor and you made me a permanent resident in KKH…

Your daddy was always there tapping my back consoling me whenever I’m slumped over the toilet bowl… he was always reassuring me that I looked beautiful even while I was puking my guts out…

As I progressed further into the pregnancy, the violent bouts of nausea were replaced by mad dashes to the toilet… apparently you had found my bladder and squeezing as when you ever fancied…

You gave me weird mood swings and weird food cravings… you never fail to make me realize that you are a growing inside of me…

I will never forget the day I felt you move for the first time… your daddy, your granny as well as myself all gathered around my tummy to feel it again…

When it was time to find out your sex, we were simply awed by seeing you on the screen… seeing you squirm darting away from the thing that was prodding your sacred place… your irritation was sensed as I vomited once I came out of the screening room…

You travelled to Bangkok in my tummy… everyone had a good time touching you… your daddy went crazy buying you clothes… looking the best for his little one…

Your daddy and I love watching every move that you make in me… Romeo loves lying near you as to tell you that he is waiting as well… we all can’t wait for you to be out and in our arms…

We are counting down to the days when you would make your grand appearance into the world…

Rearranging our lives and our room to accommodate the little one… your little bed has been bought and arranged… your coming home clothes has been packed…

50 more days to go!!!!!

As I sit here and type this I can feel your somersaults and kicks in me… as if to tell me that you are anxiously waiting as well…

Till we meet…

Your mommy….

Been reading through my blog and realized that I’ve not blogged about anything interesting… all I have there are random quizzes and an advert for the tau - geh (bean sprout husks) pillows…

Been having one of that writer’s block… or in other words been super lazy!!!!!!! Too busy facebook-ing, watching T.V. (FYI: I am a true couch potato; I pledge allegiance to fulfill my duties as a T.V. addict)

I kinda hate to leave the house now… I find comfort staying indoors with my trusty T.V. and my couch…. I’d play with my 2 dogs and watch T.V.

Life’s great…

Now, I’m not gonna blog all about my couch potato ways… there more to this blog…

I wanna blog about the Comedy Night I went to with Suresh… I had a blast… the company was awesome and the jokes were great… it felt good going out with my huge ass tummy… yes yes a guy actually went out with me and he is NOT Tubby Hubby… I survived and so did he… surprise surprise….

I AM NOT THAT FRIGHTENING TO GO OUT WITH…

Kinda miss going out with him… he was one guy with whom I could talk about anything and everything under the sun… but every time SOMEONE gets attached, he conveniently forgets me…. *boo hoo hoo*

Been doing some baby shopping with Tubby Hubby… got our baby cot at a steal… went for the Motherhood Exhibition last month and managed to snag myself a 1 year subscription of the “Mother and Baby” magazine as well as a baby cot… still looking for the perfect stroller though… have been looking around and can’t seem to find the right one… it’s either too expensive or too small… I need something big and sturdy… I remember going into 1 shop in AMK Hub… I found the perfect stroller… but the price was about $800.00 bucks… I had half the mind to tell her that I was asking for the cost of the stroller and not the down payment for a car… Tubby Hubby had to half drag me out of the shop before I could open my mouth… I bet there are loads of shop assistants who just wish I would drop dead… all I can say is that too bad “Too bad… Shit Happens”…

On another note, I just wish some people would just bug off from my life (note: I’m being very mild here…) I’m living my life the way I want to… you were given a chance to be part of it but you chose to move away so don’t come around acting all concerned… just cut the act and leave me alone… you don’t see me going all busybody-ish…

Phew… got that off my chest…

I got to go now… me wanna watch the Nanny….

Tata…